Hey Hey you beautiful people!
Firstly just wanted to say thank you for the patience and thank you for all your inboxes and messages! I did take a break and 2 months later, here I am. Feeling a lot better, happier and stronger!
I am going to be speaking more openly about what went down this year which lead me to take a break but in a nutshell, life caught up with me, childhood issues caught up with me and the one thing I have realised is you can’t run away from things, you have to accept, face and go through it. That is the only way to truly heal. There is no quick fix, there is no amazing book that will change your life, no doubt there are books that can start you off… mine was ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway’ Susan Jeffers. *Check out our book club page for all favourite reads or *hashtag*PMUIBOOKCLUB* but ultimately the truth is you have to face the music as they say.
It doesn’t have to be scary, but the first step is actually accepting that you aren’t ok, I would then say reach out to somebody. You need support and thats ok, honestly, it is totally ok not to be ok and to need help.
Thats another thing I will be touching on..this whole social media high light reel. Now don’t get me wrong I love social media but you really have to remember that EVERY SINGLE PERSON online has their own crap to deal with behind closed doors, so don’t go comparing your behind closed doors stuff to their beautifully filtered timeline.
But the whole aim of this blog today was to be honest and open and I truly feel I am at a space where I feel strong enough to do so. I can’t wait to share with you my highs and the lows that I experienced, you will see real tears and laughter but I share all of this in hope that if it helps at least one person then my job is done.
Thank you again for following, liking, inboxing and commenting. Enjoy this little video of me speaking a little bit about taking a break, being catfished and what is to come!